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So on a deliberate, conscious level I don't have a problem with two men kissing (or having sex) if that's what both want to do but on a subconscious, reflex sort of level I can't help but feel some degree of revulsion. It's what allows us to feel sympathy and empathy. We do this a great deal as humans and it's one of the things which marks us out pretty much uniquely in the animal kingdom, the ability to put ourselves in the shoes of others. I think the sense of discomfort you get is thinking about how you would feel if you were in that situation. I'm not sure I would call it revulsion but even watching two men kissing makes me feel very uncomfortable. You see the same type of thing with food etc I suppose, I guess the bottom line (pardon the pun) is we're all different but it's still a fascinating area. I personally can't relate to why some need to be any more actively averse than indifferent to whichever permutation isn't their preference, whilst others are able to just say it's not for them without a stronger sentiment. I'm not singling out straight men here - there are no doubt plenty of gay men who think that way of straight porn/naked women.
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Totally wrong IMO.Īgain, how peculiar that it is necessary for some to go to the extreme of classing imagery of sexual activity opposite their own sexuality, or even mere nudity of the sex that they are not attracted to, as 'revolting'. It really comes across as deeply insecure if you want everyone to desire or be turned on by gay porn and if not you are a repressed homosexual. Don't even think about calling me homophobic it seems to be a very easy cop out on these threads. If straight guys don't fancy them or find two men attractive. Yes equally gay guys should not feel threatened. However the situation is different for a straight man who is completely at ease with his own sexuality, he feels no threat, he feels no unease he is comfortable being straight enough not to bother about it and doesn`t mind mixing with gay guys or having friends who are gay and doesn`t seek to deny them equal rights because he sees the person not their sexuality and he isn`t afraid to even banter or flirt around gay guys because he knows it`s only banter and nothing would ever come of it because it dosn`t interest him sexually therefore he feels no need to keep convincing himself or others around him that he is straight because he is not insecure.
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You need to get the grasp that not all straight guys who don`t find other men attractive are homophobic, not finding other guys attractive doesn`t make you homophobic but of course it all depends on the context and how you react.Ī man for instance who claims to be straight yet feels the need to avoid anything gay or bisexual or feels the constant need to belittle gays at every given chance usually says there are insecurites about ones own sexuality and therfore the straight guy feels the need to convince others and himself he is 100% straight so he avoids mixing with gay people, he discriminates against gay people or gay rights, he belittles them or even gets to a point he`ll lash out and get violent towards them in a very hostile way all these things usually boil down to internalized homophobia on his part. I think you are reading into things too much here and stereotyping which actually makes you come across homophobic even if you are not. I`m straight not homophobic comfortable with my own sexuality so have no need to be homophobic or hate gay guys or bisexuals for that matter. Where do all gay guys do that? Gay guys I know at work never do that? Is it because you have a desperate need for sexual acceptance from all or from yourselves. If not they are homophobic or threatened. Why is is that gay guys want straight men to find them exciting and desirable.